Unscripted Feelings

Rain to me

There’s something about rain that has always felt deeply personal to me.

Over the years, through many of my writings, I’ve made it quite clear that nature is one of the greatest loves of my life. And among all its wonders, rain remains the most beautiful melody ever composed.

I remember when I was younger, I used to tell everyone that whenever it rained, it was God’s way of making me feel better — whether I was happy, hurting, lost, or simply overwhelmed. Rain always felt like a quiet message from above:
Let it loose. Let it fall. Allow yourself to be cleansed. Tomorrow, begin again.

Maybe that’s why I’ve always found comfort in the sound of rain — the soft tapping on rooftops, the rhythm against window sills, the scent it leaves behind in gardens and empty streets. Every drizzle, every storm, every heavy pour feels symbolic of life itself.

Some days, life arrives like a light drizzle — gentle enough for us to walk through without much thought.
Some moments pour harder, forcing us to pause and seek shelter.
And then there are storms so loud and relentless that all we can do is wait… breathe… and hope for calm again.

Yet somehow, no matter the intensity, we move forward. At our own pace. In our own way.

There is something incredibly healing about sitting by the window or standing on the porch while rain falls endlessly outside. And on the days when the weight inside feels unbearably heavy, getting drenched in the rain almost feels therapeutic — as if the sky itself understands what words cannot explain.

I’ve always loved that feeling of being washed clean by it.

As I write this now, I’m looking outside my window, watching a soft drizzle settle over the world once again. And I suppose rain reminds me of something else too:

Maybe there’s never truly bad weather —
only different ways of seeing it.

And perhaps healing, much like rain, arrives quietly… one drop at a time.

Unscripted Feelings

The Weight of Wanting

Looking inward. Learning yourself. Becoming a version of yourself that has lived through many versions of you — and many versions of life you once thought you would have.

I never fully understood what people meant when they said, “Don’t take life too seriously.” Maybe it’s because life doesn’t always work out the way we think it should. No matter how much we want something, how deeply it makes sense to us, or how certain we are that it should work — sometimes it still doesn’t.

I have always believed that our lives are a culmination of the choices we make, for good or bad reasons, in a particular emotional and mental state — choices driven by thousands of silent factors, fears, hopes, wounds, desires, and rationales we ourselves may not fully understand at the time.

Over the last few days, I have realised that the more tightly I try to force something to work, the more anxious and emotionally exhausted I become. So I’ve decided to let things unfold.

Do I fully like that feeling? Maybe not.
Do I like the pace? Probably not.
Has the timing of some of the most important milestones in my life felt difficult and tricky? Absolutely.

But I’m slowly understanding that there is no way to fast-track life.

I can only try:
to let go of what I cannot control,
to take responsibility for what I can,
and to show up each day as the truest version of myself possible.

The unknown future, moments of helplessness, and occasional regret sometimes add fuel to the emotional space I find myself in. But what remains non-negotiable is staying honest about what I truly feel in my heart.

Sometimes the heart needs to be gently guided by the mind.
Other times, it simply needs softness, understanding, and solidarity.

This phase of my life is teaching me a lot. It’s cutting down noise and forcing me to look inward:
Who am I really?
What truly works for me?
And more importantly — why?

I’m questioning my own patterns, behaviours, reactions, and approaches. Not from self-hate, but from a desire to align more deeply with my authentic self.

Maybe that’s what growth actually is:
not becoming someone entirely new,
but slowly becoming more honest about who you already are.

Elaphiti Islands, Croatia